I know you are all sick of this BOM, but I "think" I have it.  I was in Lincoln seeing the specialist and stopped off at a LQS and asked for help.  The lady said to go lighter on the flower centers and found me a beautiful yellow fabric.

So with soft light yellow:

But then I tried this with dark orange: (forgive Blogger)

I really love the contrast of the deep orange but I like the softness of the yellow.  At least it's down to two  choices.  Both of them stunning in different ways.